Im sorry, what I meant was his sire and dam have been tested before breeding and that he had been health checked by a vet before I purchased him. The breeder I used if very thorough. She has a 3 yr waiting list on her puppies and goes above and beyound whats needed. She does PennHip certain pups in her litters depending on the buyer. She knew in advanced that I was looking for a dog that would possibly be used for more then the average "pet buyer". Before my issues became as severe as they did I had been hoping to "get out more" and once again do what I had done in the past. I have friends who do weight pulling with their dogs, carting, and water work. I was very interested in joining them possibly. I did not want to put all that money into a pup to find out later on that he wouldnt be able to be used for what I had hoped. I am more then willing to go the extra mile and do everything possible to make sure that a dog I get has a better chance at what I need. Money is not an issue when it comes to whats best for the dog.
I am not using him as my sd. I am not legally disabled, I am trying everything I can to NOT be. But Im also realistic and due to my anxiety issues I like to know everything wayyy ahead of time. I need to know about all choices out there for me. I dont like walking into the drs office and having something mentioned to me that I had never heard about before, or done research into before, that would cause me to get upset and thats not good for someone with severe anxiety like me. I weigh the pro's and cons of something. Every medicine ever prescribed to me I research first. Every calming technique I look into before trying.
I mentioned that he has on two occasions helped me by me leaning against him when I became dizzy. I try not to do this, but when it came between a choice of putting some weight against him or crashing I naturally reached out for help. Im only 100lbs and thats a lot of weight for a dog, currently my boy is small- he is only weighing in at 104lbs as of last month. I did away with stairs (installed ramps) in favor of him, knowing its best for them not to go up and down stairs as puppies.
When I said I have to watch the ground for dangerous items its because this is the real world. Unfortuantly people are disgusting and do drugs and litter. Even teh school park that my kids play on have to be cleaned daily because groups of gang wanna be teens wil trash the place, smash bottles everywhere and I have found needles on the ground at another park on 4 occasions. Its a sick world we live in, in the city nxt to me some people purposely put them in the sandbox, a child found them while playing, by the grace of god he was not stuck by the needle. So yes I watch the ground when I have my kids or my dogs with me.
I grew up and spent alot of time in places where having your dog come in with you was common. Its natural for me to have a dog alongside. If I go to a place that doesnt allow a dog, they wait outside, ever since my issues became severe 6 months ago I stopped going most places all together. I can get everything I need from two places for the most part now. One of those places allows pets. The other a grocery store chain does not, so I go late at night and with my husband. There is a food market that will allow well behaved pets in, and I go there on occasion when I need something we ran out of.
So yes, I suppose you could say, as of now Kota is my friend, he has a fantastic temperament. I trust him to do what he has been trained to do. If I have an attack and blindly go towards danger he stops me. Are we happy hanging out together? Well Im happy that I have him, because so far he has made it so I can do some normal activities with my own children again. The past 6 months have been hell. I take him places that he is allowed to go, not for the fun of it, but because I feel safer. I dont have to fear that I will have a bad attack, faint or hurt myself and be alone. If I know its about to happen, I can tell Kota to get me to the car faster then I could try to do it on my own.
Ultimatly Id rather not have to rely on him when I do. I want to be healthy and go out in public like a regular person. Like I said, I want to beat my issues and not ever need help from someone else. Im here on this site to learn what I can. So I can discuss things with my dr better. So if it does come to the point where I am disabled and if it looks like a SD could be right for me and help then I know as much as I can and head in the right direction. I dont call my current dog an SD, I call him my pet. He has been trained by me and my husband to help me with things I need help with. But by no means do I consider myself qualified to train him to be a SD, nor do I know if he would ever be able to become a an SD. Thats why I asked about training ur own and looking for a trainer.